Here the list
There are no correct or wrong feelings.
They simply exist, and nothing can be done with them.
The our contact with own feelings is weaker, the more persistently we try to disprove manifestation of any feelings at our children.
Here the list of caps for feelings in other words, that we sometimes do, suppressing expression of childrens emotions: we abuse, we quarrel or we reproach.
; we accuse; we reprimand; we call; we solve problems for our children; we give advice without any need; we punish; we teach, we read to morals; we humiliate with words and acts; we are sorry in any occasion; we deride; we use sarcasm; we assume overall responsibility; haughtily we treat them; we disprove their thoughts and acts; we belittle their abilities; we interrupt or we butt in their talk.
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